You may be wondering where I've been for the last couple of months. I've been recuperating from another Carpal Tunnel release surgery. This time it was on my right wrist. It took a lot longer for this one to heal than it did for my second left wrist surgery. But I'm back, and today, I'm going to talk to you guys about the legitimate work at home opportunities that can be found if you know how and where to search.
Before I get into that, let me explain why I, personally, have chosen this path. Many people think that working at home is lazy. They believe that people who work at home just don't have the drive to go out there and do something worthwhile. While this might be true in some cases. In my case, the need to find home based work was more of a requirement, due to several factors.
The first of which is my anxiety disorder. Crowds, and being rushed, and many other things just send me into terrible fits of panic. Every work environment I have ever tried has inevitably led to this happening.
The second factor is that my immune system is very sensitive. Every little thing that comes around, I am sure to get, and this is even true when I'm in the house most of the time. The fact is, I am usually 70% sick, and 30% healthy. That's how I view it, anyway.
Needless to say, I've been frustrated by the fact that I seem to be unable to hold a normal person job. I have circumstances that even accommodations can't regulate. There is no "fix" for a weak immune system caused by my cerebral palsy. It just is. This is in mind, I decided a long time ago that I wasn't go to just settle for living off the government. Even if it meant 20.00 here, and 20.00 there, I did want to make my own money somehow, someway.
So. That's what's led me to writing about this. I know that everyone's conditions are different. Some of us can , and do go on to make very decent livings for themselves. And those people are to be appreciated and respected. This entry is for the rest of us who want some sort of supplement to the income we already get.
To begin my search, I talked to a few of my friends who I knew already worked online. They told me what keywords they used, and how to spot a scam. If you have to give money, it is not worth it. You are trying to make money, not give it away. So here are the couple of sites that I have found that work out the best for me.
Swagbucks is a site that allows you to earn points, called, you guessed, it Swagbucks for doing things like searching using their search engine, watching videos (called Swagbucks TV), completing surveys, and playing games. It is 100% free, and if you work with them steadily, you can easily make enough points to get the minimum of $5 giftcard to be redeemed on PayPal.
While a lot of people may be lured by that alone, I like to go for the Barnes and Noble giftcards because I am an e-book addict, and I love to use them for that purpose. There are other prizes too. This site is perfect for the individual who doesn't want to spend money to buy electronics and giftcards. Let your points do the shopping for you! Trust me, it's lots of fun!
InboxDollars has been used by various members of my family for the last two or three years. Only recently did I decide to give it a try myself. I have only been using this site for two weeks, and I am set to get my first pay check in a few days!
InboxDollars, like Swagbucks, asks their customers (or workers, since we're working!) to read paid emails, take surveys, complete cash offers (most of which are completely free and don't require a credit card), watch videos. Unlike Swagbucks, you don't get paid in points. This is real income. My aunt, who used the site for a while when she was out of work, was able to pay her rent off of this site.
It's so easy, and it can be fun, when you start inviting people to join you! Compete to see who has the most by the end of the week, to make things more fun, and motivate you! I have one other friend that I referred to the site, and the two of us are constantly telling each other how much we've made in a certain day on the site alone. We get a great big kick out of it. In my opinion if you want actual money, this is your better bet.
There are other sites out there, but they don't pay nearly as much, nor are they as fun as these two sites. If you have a site you'd like to suggest to me in kind, I'd be glad to feature it in my next blog. For the next few blogs, I will be recording, and talking about my experiences as an online survey taker and email reader. I hope you will give one of these two sites a try. The worst that could happen is you hate it. You have nothing to lose.
Living with a Difability, not a Disability
As an adult with Cerebral Palsy, I am dealing with problem emerging as I get older. But I'm not giving in to this condition. I am fighting through it! Join me for this journey, and maybe you will find the inspiration to defy the odds yourself!
Sunday, October 28, 2012
Friday, October 12, 2012
The Less Obvious Problems
What do you think of when you hear the words disability or disabled? Did you picture someone you know in a wheelchair? Did an elderly woman with a walker come to mind? If so, you're not wrong. Most individuals who think of disability immediately think of things that are blatantly obvious to the eyes. However, those aren't the only disabilities, and I should know. I have at least two that have nothing to do with my physical condition of Cerebral Palsy.
Cerebral Palsy in and of itself is handful to deal with. When I was a child, I had Mom, and physical therapists who helped me remember to do things for myself, such as swallowing, and walking with my heel down first. The second, I still have issues with. Gradually, these behaviors became learned, so they weren't as obvious.
When I got to be a little older, and started going to school, the mental effects of my CP began to show themselves. I was incredibly smart in many different subjects. Indeed, I was the first to read in my Kindergarten class.
We then came to realize that I had trouble comprehending things that are just said to me. This was especially true when it came to the higher maths in upper elementary school and my later school years. Thank goodness for the teachers Mom and I worked with. I wouldn't have made it through High school with their know how and patience!
While I know that learning disabilities occur in individuals that have no other condition, when it is coupled with CP, like in my case, it can be seem a little bit more challenging. But as I mentioned above, I did manage to make it out on top with a lot of hard work and determination.
Most recently, I have been dealing with major anxiety disorder. You would think it's not considered a disability, but in truth, it is in the dictionary as being a debilitating condition. My anxiety comes from years of physical and emotional abuse. But I also think it comes from the way people I have met throughout my life have dealt with my condition. Anxiety attacks come on suddenly, and almost without a warning. It's easier for me to just stay home, and not want to go out. However, I've gotten a bit better at it, with the help of the psychologist and psychiatrist I'm seeing. This is one disability I can help myself cure, or control.
The point of this post is to get people to understand that disability is more than just what is on the outside. There may be things going on the inside that you don't know.
Cerebral Palsy in and of itself is handful to deal with. When I was a child, I had Mom, and physical therapists who helped me remember to do things for myself, such as swallowing, and walking with my heel down first. The second, I still have issues with. Gradually, these behaviors became learned, so they weren't as obvious.
When I got to be a little older, and started going to school, the mental effects of my CP began to show themselves. I was incredibly smart in many different subjects. Indeed, I was the first to read in my Kindergarten class.
We then came to realize that I had trouble comprehending things that are just said to me. This was especially true when it came to the higher maths in upper elementary school and my later school years. Thank goodness for the teachers Mom and I worked with. I wouldn't have made it through High school with their know how and patience!
While I know that learning disabilities occur in individuals that have no other condition, when it is coupled with CP, like in my case, it can be seem a little bit more challenging. But as I mentioned above, I did manage to make it out on top with a lot of hard work and determination.
Most recently, I have been dealing with major anxiety disorder. You would think it's not considered a disability, but in truth, it is in the dictionary as being a debilitating condition. My anxiety comes from years of physical and emotional abuse. But I also think it comes from the way people I have met throughout my life have dealt with my condition. Anxiety attacks come on suddenly, and almost without a warning. It's easier for me to just stay home, and not want to go out. However, I've gotten a bit better at it, with the help of the psychologist and psychiatrist I'm seeing. This is one disability I can help myself cure, or control.
The point of this post is to get people to understand that disability is more than just what is on the outside. There may be things going on the inside that you don't know.
Sunday, July 22, 2012
Guest Blogger: Aubrie Cox On Invisible Disabilities
Being an internet social butterfly, I come across a lot of different people. Some of them come and go, but many become friends for life. One such individual is Ms. Aubrie Cox. She and I have been friends for a very very long time. She's struggled through what we call invisible disabilities, and is now on track to take the blogging and haiku world by storm. But I'll let her talk to you more about that.
I'm Not
Invisible, But My Illness Is
When Heather
first started this blog, she made a post about the people that inspire her to keep fighting.. I was flattered to be
included among those people. She made a comment though that's been
nagging me: "She has not once let her conditions let her down. I
want to be more like her, and pretend my condition doesn't effect
me." First, I had to consider if I really do act like this, and
then, whether or not that's a good thing. Neither was easy to do. I
don't like to talk about my chronic, invisible illnesses publicly,
and this is certainly the first time I've ever blogged about it.
Approximately
seven years ago (I was 16 thereabouts), after a year and half of a
multiplicity of doctors and tests, a rheumatologist diagnosed me with
Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome and fibromyalgia. While there is no cure for
either, within the last few years they've developed drugs to help
people manage their fibromyalgia (none I've tried, however, have
worked for me). Most doctors have never heard of EDS, or only
had a brief reading on it in medical school; some doctors still don't
believe fibromyalgia is real.
Ehlers-Danlos
Syndrome (EDS) is a connective tissue disorder, which in the most
basic sense, is caused by a genetic defect in the collagen. And if
you remember anything from basic biology, collagen holds your entire
body (joints, skin, organs, etc.) together. As of now, there are 10
identifiable types of EDS; the most common type, which I've been
diagnosed with, is Type III (Hypermobility). The two most
common characteristics are hyperelasticity of the skin (i.e. extra
stretchy) and hypermobility of the joints (i.e. joints hyperextend,
which may lead to frequent dislocation, depending on the severity of
the disorder). In addition, I suffer from chronic joint and muscle
pain and fatigue, and on-again off-again gastroparesis and acid
reflux. (Wikipedia has an accurately wide range of other potential
symptoms here.)
When I walk, sometimes my knees will
hyperextend too far backward, and when I was younger, I frequently
rolled and sprained my ankles. I go through phases where my fingers
and wrists lose their strength and I have difficulty gripping things
like doorknobs and pencils. I bruise easily; cuts/breaks in my skin
take significantly longer to heal and often scar.
Fibromyalgia's
cause is not known, but can most easily be described as
hypersensitivity and overactive nerves. In my particular case, the
doctor who diagnosed me believes that my fibromyalgia was triggered
by my lack of sleep from the EDS. The more tired I become, the
more I hurt, and the more that I hurt, the more difficult it is to
sleep. For me, the most noticeable symptoms aside from fatigue are
joint pain/stiffness, muscle pain (more of a burning than the EDS
pain), hypersensitivity to touch and sound, and brain fog. On some
days every sound is painfully intensified and sharp and my skin feels
bruise. My bag bumping against my leg can feel like an aluminum
baseball bat, and I often can't wear certain
fabrics or clothes because they itch or burn. Brain fog makes it
difficult to concentrate and often will impair my language
comprehension, which can be problematic professionally and
personally.
EDS and fibro, among many other
illnesses, are often called invisible because you can't tell just by
looking at a person that they're ill. The common reaction by others
is, "Funny, you don't look sick." This can lead to comments
about hypochondria, weakness, and laziness—all of which I was on
the receiving end of frequently in high school before and after
diagnosis. Teachers were fed up with my frequent absences, and I had
a classmate and friend tell me it was all in my head. These days, I'm
able to manage the symptoms much better (knowing the causes, able to
have a more flexible schedule with my academics and work, and knowing
my limits), but that doesn't mean I don't experience or suffer from
them.
As the title states, I'm not invisible:
During my undergrad, I was regularly involved on campus as the
editor-in-chief of the student-run literary magazine and senior
editor of the student-run publishing company; at graduate school I
take classes and teach two sections (25 students per section) of
first year composition; I'm active in the global English-language
haikai community, and in my free time I put together collaborative
poetry collections on my blog. On the side, I occasionally will do a
freelance editing or typesetting job. Despite the fibro and EDS, I
keep active; however, this also means I have little energy left for
what most would call a normal social life.
I'm naturally an introvert and a little
antisocial, but I think my chronic illness has heightened this. It's
easier to let people (aside from some of my closest friends) think
I'm that way than to try to explain that at the end of the day I'm
too tired to do anything and that I often spend the weekends
recovering from the week (or the summer to recover from the
semester). These days, I can be part of a conversation and others
will make plans with each other without so much as asking if I'm
interested. They know I don't go out; they know I'll say no. In some
ways, I'm okay with that, but I won't deny it stings and often makes
me feel like an outsider.
The alternative is to explain why I
don't go out, and people look at me blankly and nod; it's clear they
don't understand, or think that I just need to do x, y, and z and
that will somehow fix me. (For example, the biggest misunderstanding
most people have about chronic fatigue is that those suffering from
it simply just need to sleep more.) If I emphasize it too much, then
people may assume I'm too weak to do anything and not take me
seriously. In high school, this resulted in several opportunities I'd
worked relentlessly for were taken away from me. After, I made it a
point to keep my condition under wraps as much as possible as a way
to protect myself, because I felt like it was myself against the
world. I was terrified to tell people during my undergraduate studies
there was something wrong with me. It wasn't until the last couple
months before graduation I openly spoke about it. Even then I didn't
say too much other than I was struggling to get everything done which
no one really paid attention to because it was the end of the
semester and everyone was busy.
Because I don't advertise it, it also
leaves me conflicted when I have to ask for help. I've only asked for
an extension/modification on an assignment twice in which case I had
to explain my illness, and both times I was worried that it would
seem like I was taking advantage of or cashing in on my diagnosis
because I was just then talking about it. Fortunately, neither time
resulted in such assumptions (as far as I could tell). Other times
when I've brought it up, others think it must not be so bad because I
make it to school/work on a daily basis and still manage to do things
on the side. In the end, I typically feel something along the lines
of: I get my work done; I can walk, drive, and carry on a normal
conversation 95% of the time; people think I'm a little odd, but
that's just my personality; I know I'm far better off than a lot of
people; why should I bother anyone?
It's because my condition is invisible
that it's easier sometimes to pretend it doesn't exist or affect me.
However, I'm not sure it's entirely healthy. I
refuse to let it get me down, but that will also make me push my
limits more than I should, which can lead to physical and mental
crashes. I sincerely believe my chronic illnesses give me as much
strength as they do weakness. The world is a competitive place, and
waits for no one (especially those less genetically equipped for the
daily grind), so I have to have twice as much drive to not only keep
up, but overcome and succeed. Anyone who wants to succeed,
chronic illness/difability or not, has to make
sacrifices. For me, one of the sacrifices been being open about my
chronic illness; I'm not always sure it's been the right decision. On
the one hand, I'm fortunate in that I can make the choice to decide
how people want to see me, but on the other, I deny myself a chance
to come to terms with it personally.
I've been blessed
over the last couple years to come in contact with other artists and
poets who have similar conditions, and their willingness to be open
about it is helping me little by little speak about it without fear
or anxiety. In some ways, I may have also just needed to prove to
myself that I can succeed in life before confronting my own
difabilities.
This all only scratches the surface in
how EDS and fibro affect me physically and mentally. I've never
really found the right words (I've suppressed it for so long, it's
difficult to dredge it back up), but Toni Bernhard has pretty much
hit it on the nail. For more about life with invisible illness, read The Challenges of Living with Invisible Pain or Illness.Although I've read multiple blogs and articles by those with similar
conditions, Bernhard best puts it how I feel, and touches on both
those with invisible illness and their caregivers.
__________________
About the Author: Academic by day and
haiku poet by night, Aubrie Cox is a native to the Midwest, USA. She
received her B.A. in literature and writing from Millikin University
in 2011, and is currently pursuing an M.A. in creative writing at
Ball State University. Her micropoetry has appeared in print and
online journals including Modern Haiku, Eucalypt, and A Hundred Gourds.
Her first haiku collection tea's aftertaste was
published by Bronze Man Books in 2011. Aubrie regularly blogs and
publishes collaborative e-collections at Yay Words!
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Another Graduation!
Today was my last day of Occupational Therapy. I didn't feel quite as connected with that group as I did with the PT crew, but I will miss Holly for sure! So there are a few things I have learned through my experience with Occupational Therapy. One of the most important things I learned was that I do not take enough breaks for the amount of time I spend on this computer. That being said, I started using a timer on my phone to keep myself on a schedule.
Secondly, I've learned that it is perfectly okay to say "I need help with this" when it comes to doing chores during a flare up. Whether the flare up is in my legs, or in my CTS, I need to learn to say I need help. Believe it or not, that is the hardest thing for me to do. I am always very independent, and when I have to ask for help, I feel like I'm troubling someone or whatever. I'm trying to change that, slowly.
After the initial review, Danielle (my primary therapist) let me cook fried potatoes. But, they have an electric range, and I didn't know how to use any of it! It threw me off for a bit, and almost caused me a grease burn. Thankfully, that didn't happen. The potatoes turned out really well, too! I probably needed a bigger pan, but I did what I could with what I was given.
The last thing I was given was some stronger theraputty, and a certificate! I'm looking forward to having more progress as things go forward, and I am hoping you guys are keeping up with me. Come share your stories!
Secondly, I've learned that it is perfectly okay to say "I need help with this" when it comes to doing chores during a flare up. Whether the flare up is in my legs, or in my CTS, I need to learn to say I need help. Believe it or not, that is the hardest thing for me to do. I am always very independent, and when I have to ask for help, I feel like I'm troubling someone or whatever. I'm trying to change that, slowly.
After the initial review, Danielle (my primary therapist) let me cook fried potatoes. But, they have an electric range, and I didn't know how to use any of it! It threw me off for a bit, and almost caused me a grease burn. Thankfully, that didn't happen. The potatoes turned out really well, too! I probably needed a bigger pan, but I did what I could with what I was given.
The last thing I was given was some stronger theraputty, and a certificate! I'm looking forward to having more progress as things go forward, and I am hoping you guys are keeping up with me. Come share your stories!
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Transportation Part 2
So I got a bit on my high horse about businesses and persons with disabilities who are traveling by transit last time. Today, I need to talk about something else that's even more close to home. My own personal transportation struggles. I touched on public transportation issues. Now I want to talk about my own options.
As mentioned before I was a part of the Mobility program that my state provides. They've been more unreliable than the buses around here since I started. So I haven't been using them. I've been relying on my mother and really, I don't mind. I give her rent, take her to lunch, and a whole bunch of little things to show her how much I appreciate her taking the time to drive me around.
Transportation is the main issue when it comes to my social life too. Let me explain. My social life used to be going down to the Avenue, and being the catalyst for a writing group born out of NaNoWriMo, which I have participated in for years. Every Tuesday we'd meet up, and write and socialize. But I had made friends and contacts beyond my main group. I had become a regular at Barnes and Noble, and I got a lot of special treatment for it. Now, that's not what kept going back. I genuinely enjoyed it.
But when the writing group fell apart last year, things got bad. I would still go, but I was alone, and that defeating the purpose, and my budget, in the process. I also had to depend on friends to bring me home when mom could not because of work or her commitment to Cal, my stepfather. In my heart, I believe that is a lot of the reason I can't get any rides anywhere, or set things up with people. The world is a different place. People have their lives, and as much as most won't admit it, we have all become a bit more selfish with our time and needs.
This makes socializing outside the computer a bit harder than anyone realizes. Everyone assumes I enjoy the time on the computer, and really, to a point, I don't make a case to contrary. But I would love to live in a world where offering gas money for transportation is enough. Unfortunately, that is not the case, and my social life is right here, online, with my friends, readers, and CityVille.
Now, I'm not saying that things are bad online. I love the Internet, I love chatting online. I just wish transportation would stop interfering with me getting into more outside social events.
As mentioned before I was a part of the Mobility program that my state provides. They've been more unreliable than the buses around here since I started. So I haven't been using them. I've been relying on my mother and really, I don't mind. I give her rent, take her to lunch, and a whole bunch of little things to show her how much I appreciate her taking the time to drive me around.
Transportation is the main issue when it comes to my social life too. Let me explain. My social life used to be going down to the Avenue, and being the catalyst for a writing group born out of NaNoWriMo, which I have participated in for years. Every Tuesday we'd meet up, and write and socialize. But I had made friends and contacts beyond my main group. I had become a regular at Barnes and Noble, and I got a lot of special treatment for it. Now, that's not what kept going back. I genuinely enjoyed it.
But when the writing group fell apart last year, things got bad. I would still go, but I was alone, and that defeating the purpose, and my budget, in the process. I also had to depend on friends to bring me home when mom could not because of work or her commitment to Cal, my stepfather. In my heart, I believe that is a lot of the reason I can't get any rides anywhere, or set things up with people. The world is a different place. People have their lives, and as much as most won't admit it, we have all become a bit more selfish with our time and needs.
This makes socializing outside the computer a bit harder than anyone realizes. Everyone assumes I enjoy the time on the computer, and really, to a point, I don't make a case to contrary. But I would love to live in a world where offering gas money for transportation is enough. Unfortunately, that is not the case, and my social life is right here, online, with my friends, readers, and CityVille.
Now, I'm not saying that things are bad online. I love the Internet, I love chatting online. I just wish transportation would stop interfering with me getting into more outside social events.
Friday, June 22, 2012
Travel Options
The physically disabled have limited transportation options. Depending on the severity of the situation, limited could be putting it lightly.
I am fortunate enough to be one of the few who can get herself around for the most part. Of course, it has taken some time before I was able to do it as I am now.
Before I got to this point, I was forced to depend on government programs that were as far from reliable as you could get. They had caused me work related write ups, and everything else. The options in Maryland for the diffferently abled and elder seems to be sorely lacking, and honestly, there is not a whole lot one person can do. Many would say we should be grateful for what we have, and in some aspects, they would be right, but it needs to be greatly improved.
As a whole the Maryland Transit Administration could do with a facelift in many different areas. One of those being having on time buses. Their penchant for being late or not showing up at all is not only inconvenient to those who rely on it, it can cause health issues for those who are not quite disabled enough to qualify for the above mentioned transit program.
Some of us need certain things, and need them not all the time, but regularly. For me, that is the restroom, and let me tell you something, after Wednesday's fiasco with a certain restaurant I will keep anonymous, I am even more serious about timely bus arrivals, and a more informational bus system.
I have a very weak bladder, and i also have to drink a lot of water/drinks because of a mouth drying out due to my medications, so I have to go to the bathroom regularly. There are some restaurants that do not openly offer public restrooms, and this particular restaurant, I am a regular customer when I take the bus.
When the bus was 3 hours late, I had to go to the bathroom. Now, there was no sign on the door anywhere that says "No Public Restrooms". If there had been, I wouldn't have bothered, but I did, and this guy was SO rude. Why would I bring this up? Well, I would have been fine to go to the bathroom once I got to destination. But it was late, and I had to go.
People do have bad days, and I'm guessing this must have been one of his, but geez, was it really necessary to say, "I don't know why it's my problem, but go ahead, like it's your house"? While I'm standing there with my walker very obviously in pain? Give me a break!
It's Friday now, and this happened on Wednesday. I'm still angry about it. It must be because I've been in Cutomer Service so much of my life, that I know better than to treat customers with disrespect. And even if that WAS the regulation, there should be some sort of tolerance for those with a very obvious disability. It's not like this guy didn't know me. He did. And he knew the walker, too, cause I had used it only two weeks before.
So while I do think the state programs such as Mobility are nice, there needs to be some vast improvements. Otherwise adults with disabilities are going to end up relying on someone else for the rest of their lives, and I don't know about the rest of you? But this is most definitely not my intention!
I am fortunate enough to be one of the few who can get herself around for the most part. Of course, it has taken some time before I was able to do it as I am now.
Before I got to this point, I was forced to depend on government programs that were as far from reliable as you could get. They had caused me work related write ups, and everything else. The options in Maryland for the diffferently abled and elder seems to be sorely lacking, and honestly, there is not a whole lot one person can do. Many would say we should be grateful for what we have, and in some aspects, they would be right, but it needs to be greatly improved.
As a whole the Maryland Transit Administration could do with a facelift in many different areas. One of those being having on time buses. Their penchant for being late or not showing up at all is not only inconvenient to those who rely on it, it can cause health issues for those who are not quite disabled enough to qualify for the above mentioned transit program.
Some of us need certain things, and need them not all the time, but regularly. For me, that is the restroom, and let me tell you something, after Wednesday's fiasco with a certain restaurant I will keep anonymous, I am even more serious about timely bus arrivals, and a more informational bus system.
I have a very weak bladder, and i also have to drink a lot of water/drinks because of a mouth drying out due to my medications, so I have to go to the bathroom regularly. There are some restaurants that do not openly offer public restrooms, and this particular restaurant, I am a regular customer when I take the bus.
When the bus was 3 hours late, I had to go to the bathroom. Now, there was no sign on the door anywhere that says "No Public Restrooms". If there had been, I wouldn't have bothered, but I did, and this guy was SO rude. Why would I bring this up? Well, I would have been fine to go to the bathroom once I got to destination. But it was late, and I had to go.
People do have bad days, and I'm guessing this must have been one of his, but geez, was it really necessary to say, "I don't know why it's my problem, but go ahead, like it's your house"? While I'm standing there with my walker very obviously in pain? Give me a break!
It's Friday now, and this happened on Wednesday. I'm still angry about it. It must be because I've been in Cutomer Service so much of my life, that I know better than to treat customers with disrespect. And even if that WAS the regulation, there should be some sort of tolerance for those with a very obvious disability. It's not like this guy didn't know me. He did. And he knew the walker, too, cause I had used it only two weeks before.
So while I do think the state programs such as Mobility are nice, there needs to be some vast improvements. Otherwise adults with disabilities are going to end up relying on someone else for the rest of their lives, and I don't know about the rest of you? But this is most definitely not my intention!
Thursday, June 14, 2012
A Big Step in a Positive Direction
(From Saturday, June 9, 2012)
When you're dealing with Cerebral Palsy, you often have to deal with things that most do not. Things that may not be a big deal to some are huge deals for you. One of those things for me is t he ability to cross the street, which I lost a few years ago after nearly being hit by a car when I had the right away.
For the first time in five years, I was able to cross the street that has been plaguing me, by myself, without my friends holding my hand. I had to use the walker, but I guess that's okay. I tend to think of the walker as a smaller version of a power chair. You see those all the time with people getting across the street. The walker's just a bit more primitive.
So I've gotten used to the fact that this is h ow i cross the street. I look forward ot a time where I learn the bus schedule. ^^ That is my next step in independence.
When you're dealing with Cerebral Palsy, you often have to deal with things that most do not. Things that may not be a big deal to some are huge deals for you. One of those things for me is t he ability to cross the street, which I lost a few years ago after nearly being hit by a car when I had the right away.
For the first time in five years, I was able to cross the street that has been plaguing me, by myself, without my friends holding my hand. I had to use the walker, but I guess that's okay. I tend to think of the walker as a smaller version of a power chair. You see those all the time with people getting across the street. The walker's just a bit more primitive.
So I've gotten used to the fact that this is h ow i cross the street. I look forward ot a time where I learn the bus schedule. ^^ That is my next step in independence.
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